Who ever said relationship, should 50/50 lied….

So let’s settle this one fact; Marriage has never been or will ever be 50/50. Divorce is 50/50. ¬†Marriage must be 100/ 100 because it isn’t dividing everything you have in half, but giving everything you’ve got.

Many people have this illusion that once they get married their life will be full of all the things they’ve ever desired such as intimacy, companionship, love etc….. however when you get married there is an empty box…. It’s up to you to put those things in the box…. and the truth is the more you give the more you get…. you can’t put 50% love in the box… you must throw it all in their. You see love is not a feeling but an action…. this means there is no love in marriage, there is love in people and people put love in marriage. A couple must learn the art of giving, loving and serving the other to keep the box full. If you take out more than you put in, the box will end up empty.

At the end of the day, what’s the point of a relationship if you are only putting in half the effort.